Community Guidelines

Consent comes first

Couples and single women choose who they connect with. Interest is a private signal, never pressure.

Consent can be changed or withdrawn at any time, before or during a meeting. "No" or silence means no.

Respect boundaries

Read a couple’s boundaries before you reply, and follow them. Never push to change them.

Include both partners in conversations with a couple unless they ask otherwise.

Be discreet

Never share another member’s photos, messages, name or identifying details outside BullMark.

Do not contact members at work, through family or mutual circles, or on other platforms without permission.

Be reliable and honest

Use recent, genuine photos and accurate details.

Turn up when agreed, or cancel with as much notice as you can. Repeated no-shows may affect your BullMark.

Keep it non-commercial

No paid services, escorting or advertising. Accounts that solicit payment will be removed.

Report concerns

If something feels wrong, block the member and send a private report. Reports stay available to our team even after you block someone.

If you are ever in danger, contact the emergency services first.

What happens if guidelines are broken

We may give a warning, lower a BullMark level, remove content, or suspend or close the account, depending on how serious it is.